I’m with you on this. I use Rocky Linux for servers. I only use Fedora for desktops. I’ll never use Rocky for a desktop, nor Fedora for a server.
Those who dismiss any user input do not belong in user-facing software development. I’ve built systems for decades, and care about every opinion and perception of every user of any system I have helped build. Thus, I do not like to see your opinion being dismissed and hope that is not representative of the Fedora devs.
The #1 thing Fedora needs to grow is word of mouth advertising. They got a lot from me the past 4-5 years. But, after this change, while I’ll continue to use it and do the work around, I haven’t been able to recommend it to anyone and no longer speak in the countless discussions where people share their favorite distro. It’s really very simple. I recommend something I love that won’t cause someone else pain. I cannot recommend something that can cause someone pain, and this change caused pain. This definitely hurt word-of-mouth. Whether or not this impact to word-of-mouth outways growing from pre-installs is yet to be determined, and nothing but an opinion until then.
I think what most people, such as you, are asking is to have a positive outcome for BOTH loyal users and potential new users and not pit them against each other or tell one to go use a server, which for many of us is the same as telling us to quit using Fedora.