You have to remember that swap in not only used to page out when more memory is needed … it also has suspended process data and COW pages … so, more swap being used than installed memory is actually quite common when there is a lot of memory/RAM demand.
Also recognize that ZRAM when used for swap compressed the swapped data so there may often be much more in swap than it appears.
If you desire to update to f43 then I would suggest that you halt all normal operations so the system is nearly idle then perform the upgrade to f43 using the procedure shown in this fedora doc.