Hello Uwe,
I see you deleted your post, but the KDE notification system still had a copy of it so I was able to read it.
You are a point & click type of person and I must say, normally I am too. Sometimes however I want to dig into the matter a little deeper and create a simple script to get something done. I want and need to learn much more about this, and I will learn more about this, to be able to create real scripts.
Iāve looked at your suggestion and it just works. Where were you 2 days ago? I could have used your help so much. 
To explain this a bit more to others reading this thread, Uwe wrote about the automatic mounting system in KDE, normally used for cameraās, but also for external disks.
It can be found in the System-settings in Disks & Camera's. When you click on that, a second column opens with 3 items, Uwe wrote to chose the 2nd one: Device Auto-Mount.
When I do that I see in the most right hand column 3 items where I first used number 1: Attached devices.
I ticked the box on that line which says On attach.
At the bottom of the screen you must tick the box which says:
Automatically mount removable media that have never been mounted before. Then click the Apply button.
Now, very important for KDE to be able to recognize your device, attach your device. Open it and for example create a new file, open that one, close it again and delete it as if nothing has happened. KDE now knows the device because you did some file handling on it.
Remove your device from the computer, so you can attach it again later. First do a reboot.
Now itās time to get to item 2 in the right hand column: Attached devices.
Open also Dolphin, the file manager and look in the left most column.
Attach your device and in Dolphin a new item will appear in the section Removable devices.
At the same time in System-settings, below Attached Devices you will see that your external disk is attached.
At first it is not mounted yet, but that takes just a few seconds and then it is mounted: automagically. This can be seen in Dolphin where the orange symbol which indicates an unmounted device disappeared.
When I did it I could enter the disk, create a new file of which the properties showed me I, as normal user, was the owner with read and write permissions.
So once KDE knows your device, it remembers it and mounts it automatically when it is connected to your computer.
To be sure all you need is this, I removed the mount line for the disk in /etc/fstab before the reboot. And yes, it works.
One thing I could not find in the KDE help system (which is probably outdated because the texts donāt always match the app) is how to unmount the disk. One way is in Dolphin by clicking the very little up arrow just right of the name of the mounted disk, after which you can remove the disk.
Thank you very much Uwe for this completely other approach to automatically mount a disk when it is connected.