Problem to start gnome session after fresh install, upgrade and reboot

hello.

i dont know where to look for help, there is only one thing which keeps me back in arch linux and cant switch to fedora and other rpm distros like redhat, opensuse.

Everytime after fresh install i have a problem to start gnome session. First boot works fine, but when i do full system upgrade and reboot the system, i cant login to the system anymore. After i type a password in gdm, it loads and after few seconds it kick me back to gdm. Dont know what to do with that.

My specs: i7-11gen, 24gb ram, intel iris integrated card, nvidia 3050 mobile dedicated card. I was try to install in tty session nvidia drivers and also i waited these 10mins (even if 5 mins was recommended) still not fixed a problem. Cant disable integrated card like someone recommended because i dont have this option in bios. I created a post in reddit but 0 answers after one week and i dont know where to look for help. Maybe here i can find someone advenced who can help me?