Hi everyone,
I’m new to the forum, good to be here. I want to ask the community here about making an informed choice for my Linux distro. I know this topic is a dime a dozen, but hopefully it’s substantive enough that it’s worth responding to.
I (please, god) want to be done with distro hopping, so I figure I should start by giving way too much detail about my habits and preferences. Sorry if this post is a little disorganized, I’ll do my best…
First, about me. I feel that I’m perpetually conflicted about my wants and needs with my daily driver OS. I have been into technology since elementary school, I’m the IT guy for my family (a mandatory and non-paying position, unfortunately), I simultaneously love technology and hate it with an absolute passion.
For much of my life I was exclusively a Windows user on desktop; 95, 98, XP, 7, 10, 11. For much of my life it’s serviced my needs. Obviously, I don’t need to detail here how Microsoft is rotting from the inside out. My Windows installs were always as maximally tweaked for privacy and autonomy as possible, but we all know this is always a losing uphill battle. Starting in university and continuing on, I also finally decided to try MacOS even though using the OS felt to me like wading through sand. To me, each had/has its pros and cons. Windows was as good as it got for gaming. MacOS, after much adjusting, to me did feel quite nice for work and basic personal tasks. Each had (and still does have, to some extent) its usefulness to me.
As for the mobile side - I used Android until one day I didn’t. To me the iOS switch has largely been one which I’ve really enjoyed. On mobile, I do want a streamlined experience and long term support and relatively progressive privacy/security features. My phone is for ease of use, mostly. It’s worth mentioning that I do sideload apps, I am frustrated with many artificial Apple limitations, and things are not perfect. Anyhow, for now I am firmly with iOS, however the news of Motorola and GrapheneOS has sparked a little bit of contemplation in my mind…
About a year ago I decided to take the plunge into the world of Linux for desktop OS. I had already used Proxmox for a home server for quite some time but I’m not really counting that since it’s a different category of use. I tried Linux Mint, quickly felt it was “boring”, “outdated”, “not the kind of OS I liked booting into”. I put those in quotes because I know my gut feelings on things are just my personal feelings and are not real criticism by any means. It just wasn’t for me. I jumped over to Pop!_OS shortly after and while it was pretty good, it felt a little weak to me and the appeal of COSMIC and Wayland quickly faded after a (almost certainly user initiated) situation where files were no longer delete-able and system stability was tanking. Ubuntu LTS is old hat for me and I did not particularly like the feel of it when I used it for certain tasks in the past, and do not feel particularly fond of Canonical.
A big issue for me is that I don’t know where I stand, and being somewhere in the middle is kind of maddening. I like using Proxmox for my home server because I want to set things up my way; yet I use a Synology NAS despite the reputation because I value stability and ease of use with my files. I use iOS as my main phone, but I have a spare Android phone for very specific tasks on occasion. I like learning and growing my skills and tinkering, but sometimes I just want to be a basic user and have things work.
Ok, that’s a lot of background - here’s where I’m at right now… I’m looking to choose between Fedora KDE Plasma and Bazzite for my daily driver. I want stability, security, tweakability when I feel like it and simplicity when I don’t. I don’t want an OS so bleeding edge that it breaks but I don’t want to hold onto something that’s starting to show its age. I will be using an Nvidia GPU for gaming, but will also be using a workstation card on occasion when it’s not hooked up to my server (Intel ARC Pro if you’re wondering). In all honesty, I will likely use a second drive to dual boot in Windows when it happens to reduce friction monumentally, and will use MacOS when I want a very light but focused experience. I like Flatpaks from my time using them, but I hate permission handling in some cases. I like the option to install system packages in some cases, but hate the feeling of dependency hell. I’m not averse to working on setting up Nvidia and game compatibility, but it’s not all I do on my PC and I don’t want it to become a total hassle.
I’m sorry for the giant post, but I really could use some friendly Linux expertise right about now. Please feel free to ask follow up questions if you want. Thanks everyone!