In the last two years, I’ve developed a strong opinion: there need to be moderation guidelines that are separate from the code of conduct. A lot of moderation should be just routine, and not raise to the level of “incidents”. This is better for the moderators, better for keeping the site running smoothly, and better for gently encouraging good behavior rather than escalating. The CoC needs to be there in the unfortunate event of escalation or ongoing problems, or of course for serious incidents, but most moderation shouldn’t need to invoke it.